Why blending scalable surveys with meaningful conversations leads to more useful insight — and better client outcomes.

We’ve all had that moment. You complete a simple transaction –  a grocery shop, a meal out, some online shopping – and before you’ve even stepped out the door or closed your browser, a survey lands in your inbox.

“How did we do?”

Often followed by a five-star rating and maybe one comment box (that requires too much thought when you’ve already moved on to something else, so it’s never filled in).

While these quick surveys can be useful for capturing broad sentiment or spotting red flags, they rarely give us the depth or nuance we need to make meaningful improvements. And let’s be honest – most clients are weary of them.

As someone who’s both sent and received client surveys, I understand the challenge. When I worked in large organisations, we’d spend time crafting surveys, only to be met with silence, or feedback that was hard to translate into action.

Now, working with smaller and scaling businesses, the challenge is different but equally real: how do we gather detailed, meaningful feedback without overwhelming clients – or ourselves?

Surveys Are Easy, But Often Shallow

Surveys are popular because they’re simple, scalable, and give us something to show: a Net Promoter Score, a satisfaction rating, a graph. But on their own, they often don’t give us much to work with.

  • They rarely tell us why something worked or didn’t.
  • They can feel generic or transactional.
  • And they often go unanswered, especially when clients feel like nothing changes as a result.

The Value of Personal, Detailed Feedback

On the flip side, a well-structured conversation or feedback session can uncover insights a survey never would. You hear the tone, the hesitation, the deeper story. You discover what clients aren’t just saying – but feeling.

These richer insights can:

  • Help you improve processes or service delivery
  • Reveal unmet needs or opportunities for new offerings
  • Build stronger relationships through genuine engagement

But let’s not pretend it’s easy. Talking to clients takes time. Analysing what they say takes effort. Acting on it takes coordination.

A Real-World Example

Many years ago, as the account manager for a global travel management company, we’d onboarded a new client – and it wasn’t going well.

After much discussion, we decided to go beyond surveys. The team leader and I visited the client’s main office and scheduled 15-minute interviews with any travel arranger who was interested. It was time-consuming and effortful – but extremely effective.

We learnt exactly what was and wasn’t working, heard directly from the bookers where the pain points were, and saw the impact it was having. We used that feedback to create an action plan, communicated it back to participants, and made real changes in the business.

What started as a rocky relationship became one of our strongest – and that client went on to become a long-term advocate. That kind of personal approach won’t always be possible, but in this case, it was absolutely worth it.

So What’s the Middle Ground?

Here’s the good news: it’s not an either/or situation. The most effective businesses use a blended approach -one that balances reach with richness.

Some ideas that work:

  • Use surveys to track sentiment and highlight where to dig deeper.
  • Add a human layer through quarterly reviews, informal check-ins, or even occasional phone interviews.
  • Rotate your effort  not every client needs deep feedback every quarter. Use segmentation and timing strategically.
  • Set a feedback rhythm that works for your team’s capacity – and your clients’ patience.

And importantly: close the loop. If a client takes the time to give thoughtful feedback, let them know how it’s been used. Even a quick “thanks to your input, we’ve now…” goes a long way in building trust.

Where AI Can Help (And Where It Can’t)

AI tools won’t replace real conversations, but they can support the process by helping you:

  • Transcribe and summarise interviews
  • Analyse qualitative comments at scale
  • Cluster similar feedback across multiple sources
  • Draft internal insights reports or identify trends

Used well, AI can reduce the admin load – so your team can focus on listening, responding, and acting.

TL;DR

Getting useful client feedback takes effort. But the right kind of effort – asking meaningful questions, listening with intent, and acting on what you hear – will always outperform a stack of five-star ratings no one reads.

If you’re trying to figure out how to balance scale and insight in your own client feedback approach, I’d love to hear what’s working (or not!) in your world.

If you’re ready to explore how to transform your client management strategy, contact Sharon for a complimentary 30-minute discovery call.

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